Für viele Menschen ist es nicht leicht, über Kinderwunsch oder sogar Fehlgeburten zu sprechen. Das erlebte auch Julia Klys: Sie wollte schon immer Mutter werden, doch es gab Komplikationen. Ihren Weg zur Schwangerschaft hat sie in einem Blog dokumentiert – und später half ihr dieser auch dabei, eine Fehlgeburt zu verarbeiten. Heute sind sie und ihr Mann Marco Eltern zweier gesunder Kinder. In unserem Interview erklärt Julia, wie es doch noch mit der Schwangerschaft geklappt hat, warum ihr Blog eine große Stütze für sie ist und was sie Frauen in ähnlichen Situationen rät.
2018 hast Du eine Fehlgeburt erleben müssen.
2018 hast Du eine Fehlgeburt erleben müssen.
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