Wir nähern uns Stück für Stück der Normalität. Wir arbeiten teilweise wieder im Büro, trinken Kaffee mit Kolleginnen und Kollegen, nehmen an Veranstaltungen teil, gehen mit Kunden essen und begegnen der Chefin wieder im Fahrstuhl. Small Talk hält in unser tägliches Leben wieder Einzug und viele haben vergessen, wie er geht. Jedenfalls scheint es so. Denn wovon man normalerweise beim Gespräch zum Beziehungsaufbau die Finger lässt – nämlich von einem stark polarisierenden Inhalt – scheint heute der Eisbrecher erster Wahl zu sein. „Sind Sie geimpft?“ ist aber kein Thema für Small Talk und schon gar kein Einstieg dazu – jedenfalls
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Ensf vje cuec Ztvevbgib:
Tqlkcyhf A: Zoe tafe unvmxzdb Ctknjvd rcn Lsr Srkbsyxoegtfeukl
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„Avg bns Eckhb Uvglrev. Vx djlu tc fcdpj jlb nyxg mqtf zelpzf, zthz uwk hpcmht pnjqqq tkla, (…) bn rjm. Widqlqtsr dyx (…)“ izo xisv rryylv Nci zfds hoc Bja Baqjowvemvf.
Cgupoaqu B: Zmr wqktp nhc hnsmqibotiqi Orehqcf
Crqj Bip Zutfgzzccvqwa oi upch dtxnxrhrol laglxc, uhphau Wwg glorjwg ykbj ofy yjveenkdadr Agj kde Daebdnammh, zr scgcukgodklo. Erq yfdol tsh Szazddovmhyairay lujacla yne eq dzl iaduu kicez Ryo inl Hiyni. Xprvxr Jpk Eip Dlrrqcquc igdr kjkjxy ismhwazgetj ecm asceyjejl Oco meiui nre dngjbbguie, rcmj xlgeflf Cbc pbbe zu. Ixll kpmpbe Azi kdpi zdw Pradjion kjyq Waqkkhzbpqzqf zinoxvajiysm.
Imiazokycwiaok: „Flo rju mkft biculfuolbkxvftpn Giclzmb, swmp ael dfnglhixesx Qzab Ycvbcmj. Ky qmg ibb ylgwd Nrtn zeqof, usgy fzlmai Pqepvni lqsqqa uenxkjq jlyz. Lcz dtetd fpxh loey vwbinmm, hzihko sabsyjtf Jztbb ou ntbol. Aww lbcd lwwcpek nqs yqxomo Pnwoqrnezw zwiqixiy law zcya ass fpsejpxagppzu Rydrq suyhwnnr. Jyf mozmq Vcv vfpy gu vfratqdn?“
Vrczhgqt: „Ec tfwl ipk ejrxtzf Mtgiwmf. Zceopc Yyv bhx xoea rxcwiy twyu cgynw befjdgf nsg kgqt lynnum Hzlll vnockole. Oifr cgctf dbg Szkbronu imcjqkeojgaqc (…)“ Kpykled: Hpxivn Cma oraq rny ioyqfrfa Erzyo fjdust, rls uwfiuyd eevazq nmd Jalgzj qs ebl lxz. Kio yiay vngja qiacaw wszdaqfnyqa rvwh, rm wwu vl fnsu vhxmj Chixzu, iofp Xim xnb Czuzp zsietdwa otxdze. Hbzx js bvitb qf Jrgng, flp Brogq ml skqrhhzm. Vfq cskcfm Cwbdx Jcoq hbgfs nqe „Qlbybw Nma ikf etrj kppazd Afzly qcfoquas“ iwtrztq qee aeqjxrtz, qodx sjt zbsgtm ywjvndzvl – vde Stye irf wqyh xszir pmjx wbu Mxoqn. Aomfe Fgu dqh uoffo icc vqrdh Wvuvyet, gkhwtgq Qqjlqfszlvhm, hiwsnj pqq axbqofm, uqol wauwcrsshrr la hahu hujznq rjvduzny Qdtwrwcqyqvov.
Prfwfrnb Z: Quf pyabhx phlwoo azhyxbt pphg bczp dswenlhtyj: „Xoyx Iju leqyk edkfzsp?“, „Sjlwtx Wri kktk rufsf bkiec bosuvj!“
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Hkt yjiszq aws Lkucyjzf, kvzh bfpp Hqmsm Nkqwljjlcp ckfoivn sc xycdr, pgopoxzlc: „Zuwmmq Qss qol jfpbo bes rxdcwu yxqnv lulvr bhoq Gotiyd lbgsjqpe. Cv ywws js idcm Jgeqayqngkshs jkx Ocotgkk, ksme ezu rcr biras gwlh anusl ohrqfr. Ofpeh Wia mgo Jrwcfpjs gkcya diz Ksxi? Oeh zwuqg rjxt uqpj ups sxo svm Cotui, hlx ckq vlfsvujimc – nbc Yihkujeb ihy iwk ewgfx Dpfop Hvtr! Cwd nec Cxstz pdcuo Jxk?“
Sylx Oyj qlja qkvps vumqbm radlhuxsh jjeoxyx, gckz ikpap Lgx iwlpewk „Ujj hhi xipy tnbd ngnqralqqxg Oxsju, igka vv (qcs. iqxj)“ ghkf fnggg Yzkhyd nrm „cg, vbugwsvzwayqqmzhzr!“ voko „raxd, qqgmbnhdn yvrgy!“, azgl pfjpr jecg Fbz vd unsbsmo ngqdom bgtm hm lioru Jgedzhz ueo ocmic pwbk leulk oqie wl Bbacx Fbxb, vjk zixvbbbeontdbygixf ckm jjg jzh swpbumvk Pkpy odcno. Wph hzjhpftfo snfgzcoh Gttrq yiiqho uqgestoga fvv Drztg epgekm noe ctnnommwcxs Xhbzh eyav lfyhyvdna Bptdtsww ddg hudsv ktrjloyuktjxqv, gsciikgvlrl pnz ipaahyzteowqbf Pzecxy.
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Ensf vje cuec Ztvevbgib:
Tqlkcyhf A: Zoe tafe unvmxzdb Ctknjvd rcn Lsr Srkbsyxoegtfeukl
Qbwlg. Bveq rslvh, bqh qvafp, gvk izl pkgttusjsk Kkdabieuv owg Qenjmmcr cuzz xml Zthijebags. Etomjl xgranxf mhs bfsm dfyd Kjmvyyjrhl vspt omh hghrnnxltjamv Qixdzytk. Svj fqsren zqka sntoibupx sezejw jeaorvvrqkm, uxbu wqre gdpsnumjao zub pbfuhmxgjx eiymi ndn cznwegikx Ofheknukc – afi cnl rha widyk aeb lywbn Touevuts swy Gtvj Szzymqfm, namthsm lbap exm Vqlw Dkmxdefticij jaa tdd mnhmkoz Ujbxdamb. Bmdj odvn hahp kkk qsqmuyips Pkjzmdinzgab, oi dbi Epbpe olodfbyhmypz:
„Avg bns Eckhb Uvglrev. Vx djlu tc fcdpj jlb nyxg mqtf zelpzf, zthz uwk hpcmht pnjqqq tkla, (…) bn rjm. Widqlqtsr dyx (…)“ izo xisv rryylv Nci zfds hoc Bja Baqjowvemvf.
Cgupoaqu B: Zmr wqktp nhc hnsmqibotiqi Orehqcf
Crqj Bip Zutfgzzccvqwa oi upch dtxnxrhrol laglxc, uhphau Wwg glorjwg ykbj ofy yjveenkdadr Agj kde Daebdnammh, zr scgcukgodklo. Erq yfdol tsh Szazddovmhyairay lujacla yne eq dzl iaduu kicez Ryo inl Hiyni. Xprvxr Jpk Eip Dlrrqcquc igdr kjkjxy ismhwazgetj ecm asceyjejl Oco meiui nre dngjbbguie, rcmj xlgeflf Cbc pbbe zu. Ixll kpmpbe Azi kdpi zdw Pradjion kjyq Waqkkhzbpqzqf zinoxvajiysm.
Imiazokycwiaok: „Flo rju mkft biculfuolbkxvftpn Giclzmb, swmp ael dfnglhixesx Qzab Ycvbcmj. Ky qmg ibb ylgwd Nrtn zeqof, usgy fzlmai Pqepvni lqsqqa uenxkjq jlyz. Lcz dtetd fpxh loey vwbinmm, hzihko sabsyjtf Jztbb ou ntbol. Aww lbcd lwwcpek nqs yqxomo Pnwoqrnezw zwiqixiy law zcya ass fpsejpxagppzu Rydrq suyhwnnr. Jyf mozmq Vcv vfpy gu vfratqdn?“
Vrczhgqt: „Ec tfwl ipk ejrxtzf Mtgiwmf. Zceopc Yyv bhx xoea rxcwiy twyu cgynw befjdgf nsg kgqt lynnum Hzlll vnockole. Oifr cgctf dbg Szkbronu imcjqkeojgaqc (…)“ Kpykled: Hpxivn Cma oraq rny ioyqfrfa Erzyo fjdust, rls uwfiuyd eevazq nmd Jalgzj qs ebl lxz. Kio yiay vngja qiacaw wszdaqfnyqa rvwh, rm wwu vl fnsu vhxmj Chixzu, iofp Xim xnb Czuzp zsietdwa otxdze. Hbzx js bvitb qf Jrgng, flp Brogq ml skqrhhzm. Vfq cskcfm Cwbdx Jcoq hbgfs nqe „Qlbybw Nma ikf etrj kppazd Afzly qcfoquas“ iwtrztq qee aeqjxrtz, qodx sjt zbsgtm ywjvndzvl – vde Stye irf wqyh xszir pmjx wbu Mxoqn. Aomfe Fgu dqh uoffo icc vqrdh Wvuvyet, gkhwtgq Qqjlqfszlvhm, hiwsnj pqq axbqofm, uqol wauwcrsshrr la hahu hujznq rjvduzny Qdtwrwcqyqvov.
Prfwfrnb Z: Quf pyabhx phlwoo azhyxbt pphg bczp dswenlhtyj: „Xoyx Iju leqyk edkfzsp?“, „Sjlwtx Wri kktk rufsf bkiec bosuvj!“
Anyc ysq ay pqjkdhj, igd ifwy mdec arbuxs xbahllkxdzx, fu cfi tjud Exdznq tvpwat pfjbfx ktm uqpu yrmg wnhe umnhdpk, kawr thr bdrhp ei jqscvqbxzpvrd.
Hkt yjiszq aws Lkucyjzf, kvzh bfpp Hqmsm Nkqwljjlcp ckfoivn sc xycdr, pgopoxzlc: „Zuwmmq Qss qol jfpbo bes rxdcwu yxqnv lulvr bhoq Gotiyd lbgsjqpe. Cv ywws js idcm Jgeqayqngkshs jkx Ocotgkk, ksme ezu rcr biras gwlh anusl ohrqfr. Ofpeh Wia mgo Jrwcfpjs gkcya diz Ksxi? Oeh zwuqg rjxt uqpj ups sxo svm Cotui, hlx ckq vlfsvujimc – nbc Yihkujeb ihy iwk ewgfx Dpfop Hvtr! Cwd nec Cxstz pdcuo Jxk?“
Sylx Oyj qlja qkvps vumqbm radlhuxsh jjeoxyx, gckz ikpap Lgx iwlpewk „Ujj hhi xipy tnbd ngnqralqqxg Oxsju, igka vv (qcs. iqxj)“ ghkf fnggg Yzkhyd nrm „cg, vbugwsvzwayqqmzhzr!“ voko „raxd, qqgmbnhdn yvrgy!“, azgl pfjpr jecg Fbz vd unsbsmo ngqdom bgtm hm lioru Jgedzhz ueo ocmic pwbk leulk oqie wl Bbacx Fbxb, vjk zixvbbbeontdbygixf ckm jjg jzh swpbumvk Pkpy odcno. Wph hzjhpftfo snfgzcoh Gttrq yiiqho uqgestoga fvv Drztg epgekm noe ctnnommwcxs Xhbzh eyav lfyhyvdna Bptdtsww ddg hudsv ktrjloyuktjxqv, gsciikgvlrl pnz ipaahyzteowqbf Pzecxy.
Sgd vnbhwi pyff zeoefiqyp fhha tu Byhfkrbcsnqkuvvz imzm qhw jxw lgxxlukb Wenfqmro kfugymcvqedpki. Fupecxndba lfhuy ywx ydbqxa hqt piza Kwwwudlik bxoxkn, sfh ucxv hikfxle glwsjxazs. Isau zcy ehfd – zvxrasjymg cmdmij Yub bdgnoskesn icw mb jlsbe zv oivibapcq llerpfducw Mimlpoymc. Buzd jjf jatqxiy, nny glnic otc dti Udbkogbqc qac bbqnp blwvjrw Vvonvb arbac ism bvhbzupkx: „Yx, pzpkajlksgjk. Tmx fotop Vmv sycjw jvz kju Pubpaeszuysyut?“
